Differentiating a Secure and an Insecure Person

A YouTube shorts came in my feed today where a national level weight lifter, a reality show finalist, a big show was harassing and threatening a fellow contestant. The fellow contestant (one of my inspirational personality) stood there calm, collected, and replied in a classy way as much as possible. 

Another YouTuber reviewed both their personalities, which was a good learning for me to make few changes in my own personality and choices of response. I am sharing the gist below. 

An insecure person

• Gets agitated very fast
• Is a bully
• Not confident from inside
• Feels that raising voice, shouting, dominating, and threatening someone is what makes one a alpha confident man
• Retorts to criminal offenses
• Oppresses the weak, while is scared when the threatened person doesn't reacts as desired, and responds strongly to the threats

Secure person

• Doesn't care who is spitting what bullshit behind their back
• Simply cool, calm, and collected
• Never reacts but responds calmly
• Is logical and not very impulsive in actions
• Has a calm demeanor
• Has a don't care attitude with a meaningful silence associated